Did having children change your relationship for better or worse?

Hi answer community! im doing a relationship survey and would apreciate it if you answer this! (i apologize and understand if you find it too personal/offensive) thanx*

Did having children change your relationship for better or worse?
yes it did.... probably for worse to start off with, sleepless nights, tired all the time, no sex, no free time or rather no us time.... thinking back, we didnt really appreciate the knowledge of our parents (and im only speaking for my own situation) until we had one (time consuming) springs to mind... with the second one it was more organised we knew what needed to be done and within what time frame (although that changes constantly) I think organisation and definately an understanding partner is the key, btw; that cliche about the older they get - the easier it gets, its true and the easier it gets the better it gets amen!
Reply:life became different , harder but sweeter.


Children are a source of happiness but also source of headache
Reply:depends on the people
Reply:It's hard to explain how having a child has changed my marriage. Its better someways, and worse in others. Don't get me wrong, I would never want to change my life now, my little one is the light of my life. I agree at first it was hard, like someone else stated, no sleep, frustration, not knowing what to do, but eventually it starts to get better. My guy is now 5 months old and is such a character. I can't even imagine life without him. So it is worse in the way that my husband and i can't do things on the spur of the moment, we like to go to races and fishing and stuff like that well now we have to find a sitter or not go at all. But it wont always be that way. you have to take the good with the bad. if you want a yes it 's better or no its not, then I have to say its better.
Reply:better my girl gave me a beautiful baby and we made it together.
Reply:Hai, I liked your question because Iam also curious about the same thing. Iam a wife now and Iam happy. But Iam anxious how the life will be when I become mother of his children.





ANY WAY THINKING ABOUT IT IS NICE. BUT WHEN IT COMES TO PRACTICAL................ WELL LET'S WAIT AND SEE.
Reply:At first it was challenging because there are added responsibilities that have to be fit into the marriage....and I know as a Mommy I felt that most of them fell on my shoulders, breastfeeding, staying at home all day with baby, getting up at nite.....eventually however, especially as the baby grew and we figured out ways to balance the new responsibilities, having children together is one of the things that cements our relationship. Nobody loves my children like their Daddy....it's a great feeling.
Reply:It changed it, it's bound to and it tests your relationship. But it's your choice if you allow it to bad or work with your partner.